Love A month :|

Alright so I have had a couple of my ladies say to me that they want love, that they are scared to be hurt. That they think they should this or that.
Ladies, unless you love yourself. Truly love yourself. Your not gonna find love.
If you think your in love. Then JUMP. Tell him you love him. Why do you think you have to wait? Why does he have to be the one to say it first? You can say it, prove that your ready for it. Say it out loud to the man you love.
Now I know what some of you are thinking. Some of you are thinking that Big Momma has a lot to say about this when she's alone her self. Well guess what ladies. Big Momma is alone and she is HAPPY that way. I'm not going to settle for something that is not real.
Big Momma is looking for the butterflies in her stomach. The toe curling kisses, and the looks that will take my breathe away.
Unlike some of the ladies out there, I know what I'm worth and I'm not about to settle for something less.
So girlies, even if your a single mother, over weight, under weight, not OMG drop dead beautiful, divorced, or any other excuse that you try to use. There is love out there. And it is for you. You just need to keep your head up and the haters at bay. Cause when you fall, you will land like a ton of bricks and it will be worth every lonely minute of it.
Love you bitches and keep on being sexy!

Happy New Year World!!!! 41 days left

Happy New Year! Big Momma brought the New Year in with some of her favorite people. It was amazing. I danced, I drank and I had a DRAMA free evening.
For the year of 2010 I wish love, happiness, and a amazing year to everyone.
I have no resolutions. I have the things I need the most, Lil Momma, my family and my amazing friends. Big Momma needs nothing else.
I tip my glass to you and wish you the luck to find the same.