Well 2012 we are coming. Just a couple more days. I don't know about all you, but this is the time that Big Momma sits down and starts to think about what it is that I want to do next year as my "resolution". And basically I make up things that I will never do. So this year, I'm going to make Five Promises to myself.
I promise to loose weight.
I promise to read more.
I promise to write more.
I promise to travel more.
I promise to LIVE more.
Friday, December 30, 2011
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Revalations
I watched the most amazing video today, a video that made me think.
If my life ended tomorrow, am I proud of what I have done? Who I am? Is there anything that I wish I would have done?
And the answer to all three questions.....is yes.
I'm totally proud of all that I have done, I'm a great single mother, I got my associates degree, worked and raised my beautiful daughter who is smart, friendly and just in general amazing.
I'm very proud of who I am, I'm a good person who has amazing friends and a great family. I treat people well and I am generous.
Is there stuff that I still want to do? Of course. About a million. Who can sit there and say that they have done EVERY single thing they want to do? Certainly not anyone that I know.
But what Big Momma does know, is that I'm going to continue to live like this. Making myself proud, doing great things with my family and friends, and hopefully getting at least a dozen out of the million things that I want to do out of the way.
If my life ended tomorrow, am I proud of what I have done? Who I am? Is there anything that I wish I would have done?
And the answer to all three questions.....is yes.
I'm totally proud of all that I have done, I'm a great single mother, I got my associates degree, worked and raised my beautiful daughter who is smart, friendly and just in general amazing.
I'm very proud of who I am, I'm a good person who has amazing friends and a great family. I treat people well and I am generous.
Is there stuff that I still want to do? Of course. About a million. Who can sit there and say that they have done EVERY single thing they want to do? Certainly not anyone that I know.
But what Big Momma does know, is that I'm going to continue to live like this. Making myself proud, doing great things with my family and friends, and hopefully getting at least a dozen out of the million things that I want to do out of the way.
Monday, December 26, 2011
When will I learn
So I thought I met someone. He was really nice at first, sweet and all. He made all the right moves and everything......then suddenly he got all weird and shady. Ignoring all my calls, not texting like normal.
Another one bites the dust. But I am gonna keep the hope alive? Or should I just give it up?
Another one bites the dust. But I am gonna keep the hope alive? Or should I just give it up?
Merry Christmas
Little Momma had a amazing Christmas! Telling me over and over again how lucky she was and how it was the best Christmas ever! And THAT for Big Momma makes it the best Christmas ever.
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Happy Holidays
I hope that all of you readers are remembering the important things in this time. It's not about the gifts, pending on how religious you are it's not about religion. It's about making memories with your family. Taking these moments that everyone is being nice to one another, and keeping those better memories in the lead of those bad memories.
Take Big Mommas advice and day by day do your best to make those memories with your family. Remember how important they really are, taking their bad and all.
I hope you all have a wonderful wonderful Holiday Seasons, no matter what it is that you celebrate.
Take Big Mommas advice and day by day do your best to make those memories with your family. Remember how important they really are, taking their bad and all.
I hope you all have a wonderful wonderful Holiday Seasons, no matter what it is that you celebrate.
Monday, December 5, 2011
Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum
I seem to know every crazy man in the great state of New York. I must have a giant radar on my head that say "I will date every crazy in NY."
Does anyone know how to turn this off? hehehehe
Big Momma is all over being with morons. Meeting idiots,dating idiots, wanting to fall for idiots.
I'm starting to power myself up for next year, so that Big Momma can make a change. Get rid of the losers. Move on to winners.
Seriously everyone, Big Momma dated once years and years ago, (did I mention YEARS!) who was cute, funny and (COUGHgoodinbedCOUGH) but dumb as a box of rocks. He thought one could drive to England. Yes I said drive. Swear to god. Shortly after that I had a talk with myself. I could find better. AT least someone who knows you cant drive over the ocean. LOL
But alas, Big Momma didn't learn. Maybe I will some day.
Does anyone know how to turn this off? hehehehe
Big Momma is all over being with morons. Meeting idiots,dating idiots, wanting to fall for idiots.
I'm starting to power myself up for next year, so that Big Momma can make a change. Get rid of the losers. Move on to winners.
Seriously everyone, Big Momma dated once years and years ago, (did I mention YEARS!) who was cute, funny and (COUGHgoodinbedCOUGH) but dumb as a box of rocks. He thought one could drive to England. Yes I said drive. Swear to god. Shortly after that I had a talk with myself. I could find better. AT least someone who knows you cant drive over the ocean. LOL
But alas, Big Momma didn't learn. Maybe I will some day.
Sunday, December 4, 2011
The Stupidty of Men
More and more men it seems that this page is turning into a man bashing site. And I cant seem to help it.
Big Momma is a magnet for the stupidest men in the history of the world. Why oh why is a man going to come meet you, talk on the phone with his friends and chat on his dating website in front of you? Like seriously. SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!!
Where are all the good men? The educated hard working men that want to be with a woman who has morals and doesn't want to waste her time with drama and worrying whether or not she can trust him.
A man who takes a woman on a date and holds her during a scary movie. Someone who isn't trying to be ghetto or hood.
Woman deserve to be treated with respect and with kindness. All any of us really want is someone treat us the right way. The same way men say they want to be treated. Maybe if we all start treating them the way they treat us they will get the hint.
No wonder I'm so bitter and twisted.
Big Momma is a magnet for the stupidest men in the history of the world. Why oh why is a man going to come meet you, talk on the phone with his friends and chat on his dating website in front of you? Like seriously. SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!!
Where are all the good men? The educated hard working men that want to be with a woman who has morals and doesn't want to waste her time with drama and worrying whether or not she can trust him.
A man who takes a woman on a date and holds her during a scary movie. Someone who isn't trying to be ghetto or hood.
Woman deserve to be treated with respect and with kindness. All any of us really want is someone treat us the right way. The same way men say they want to be treated. Maybe if we all start treating them the way they treat us they will get the hint.
No wonder I'm so bitter and twisted.
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