Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Things that make you go HMMMMMMM

SD contacted me and wanted to see Lil Momma. Big Momma took her over there and we spent two hours there. It was good to see Lil Momma so happy. They played and watched a movie and SD asked a lot of questions about her. Big Momma being the Mother as always, asked about family illness's and what not. LOL Just being prepared.
SD has made plans to go visit again on Thursday and wants to go Trick or Treating with us next month.
Now your thinking "Big Momma" what happened to forgive and forget. Well I have forgiven, and I'm moving on. But if he's ready to be a part of Lil Momma's life and she wants him to be there. I'm going to let him. It's not about what happened between Big Momma and SD. It's about Lil Momma and her relationship with her SD. So as long as SD doesn't hurt her feelings or make her sad in anyway then we will be fine.
Big Momma will admit, hoping that admitting makes her see the truth of it, that she feels there is a underlined story to it. Like SD is hoping to get out of the court issues with child support. Or that his lawyer told him that he needs to do it so the court will take it easy on him. And if those are the motives then Big Momma isn't pleased that SD is using her Lil Momma. And trust that Big Momma will note it down and make sure that get's addressed in a way that is exceptional. No one should use a child like that. Period. But Big Momma made it clear, :) VERY CLEAR, that if there is a single tear shed, there will be *cough, cough* problems. So here's to hoping that Big Momma is wrong in this case.

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