Where have I been?

Big Momma has been having a crazy hectic life. I have had surgery so that Big Momma can be a skinnier, healthier Momma. Lost 100 pounds so far! Have had a little bit of hurdles to get over. Dehydration and ulcer. But Momma is getting there. We moved, Little Momma started a new school. Little Momma is having some transition issues still. But she's getting there. Her biggest issue is that the kids are curious about her. They ask questions about her Dad and she doesn't like to talk about him understandably. So we are working on what to say to those kids, and how to handle those feelings. No she still hasn't seen him. And there is another warrant out of him for not paying his child support and not showing up to court. And apparently this winner is out making more kids. I have chosen not to share this with Little Momma because he is having this with his little sisters mother. No need to tell her there is another child out there for him to ignore her for. Big Momma is taking the high road here. He's gonna do what he's gonna do, clearly Little Momma isn't a interest for him. But that's ok. Because we are surrounding ourselves with those who we love and love us back. Little Momma did meet her Nana (paternal grandmother). They had a great time spending the afternoon together and we have kept in touch. Nana lives far away, L.I., so she doesn't see her often. But her Nana sent her a card and we send texts to one another. I fully support this relationship as long as Nana plans on staying around. And from what I am seeing, she's in for the long haul. Ready for live to settle down a bit. It will help to settle when we get the rest of this new apartment unpacked and settled in to. Hoping it will happen soon.