We just got decorating eggs and my Lil Momma is in the bath. I'm getting slightly excited to hide eggs and get ready for her to see that the Easter Bunny came. Then we are off to my parents house for Easter Dinner with the family.
Big Momma has had a pretty amazing weekend. Spent some great time with my Best Girl in the whole world, Princess. Have you ever had a friend that you know you were meant to find? That's my Princess. We sat on her deck and watched Lil Momma and JR play in the Lake. LOL in the beginning of April in this retched town that doesn't have season's other than Winter and Hot as Hell. It's nice to see that I'm still needed other than as a mother.
Which leads me into my opinion for the weekend. Big Momma has been having it rough, feeling like my only roll is to just try to find the time in the day and get as much in as I can. And then there are others out there that have it so easy. Case in point:
Big Momma's baby daddy has now still not come around. He has still not come around, hasn't called in a while. I'm not sad about it. Actually I'm really happy about. What I'm NOT happy about is that he gets no repercussions. He has been out shopping and chillin and just doing him. Meanwhile my car is breaking down and I need new clothes and so does Lil Momma. So then I get renewal paperwork in the mail for our health insurance, Section 8 and what not. (Working full time and still having to need the Gov't to foot some of the bill is a bitch) I have to get proof that he's NOT paying his child support. So I talk to them and ask them what I need and then I ask the dreaded question. When can I expect it? The answer was like the other shoe falling on my half way good day. He applied for public assistance. The MF is getting assistance and doesn't have to pay his child support. So how does that work? You sell drug's, you get caught and go to jail. Then you get out and get Public Assistance. How the fuck does that work????? YES I SAID FUCK. I work 40 hrs a week at a job I totally hate. And I go to school to better my self so that I make more then nothing a hour. And I barely get enough assistance to make it through month to month. And not to start a pitty party. But Big Momma would like to be able to live more than check to check. But NOOOOOOOOOOO I have to do a million other things while this CS is out doing whatever he wants and not taking care of his responsibilities. So no lies. Big Momma was and still is a little pissed about that. I BUST MY ASS and have little to nothing to show for it. And this man is driving a new car fresh out of jail and buying new fitted's and Timm's and god only knows what else.
And what exactly does Big Momma think about this? I think it's bullshit that we are letting the felon's get all this shit. It's like we are congratulating the. Good job selling those drugs, getting caught and then being sent somewhere where you get three square meals, cable even though most people cant afford it and what ever else they get. Then let them come home and give them free money that I a hard working single mother get taking out of my taxes. BULL SHIT. He should be working and paying taxes just like me. And he should be taking care of his children. ALL OF THEM. Grimey MF.
By the way....so you know, unless he has filed papers through the court to reduce his support, he is still liable for what the court has set for him to pay. Take him back to court for not paying girl. Gotta learn to play the game. I have lots of tips when it comes to family court!
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