Lil Momma is changing as she grows. As do all kids. And knowing that she has siblings out there (from her SD), has her asking questions. So this morning Big Momma sucked it up and sent some messages. Reaching out on Lil Momma's behalf and saying that she wants to play, and meet her siblings.
Her donor got around so there were two different messages. One to a woman that we have gotten together before with. With Lil Momma's little sister. And the other to the mother of her older sister and brother.
Now Big Momma plays the waiting game to see if I get a response. To be honest this was one of the hardest things I have done in a while. For different reason from the past and for clear reasons none of us get along. Although two of us try very hard for the sake of our daughters, I don't know how the other mother is going to react. So this should be interesting.
I'm willing to do what needs to be done for the sake of my daughter. And if that means sitting in a room with someone that I know has ill will towards me then so be it. Big Momma doesn't care. As long as there are no words for Lil Momma to hear. The children can have a very good relationship. And as siblings they should.
So here's to letting bygones be bygones and to families getting together. And to Big Momma staying the bigger person and not having to hurt anyone's feelings with the truth. ;)
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