Looking forward to the weekend ahead. Lil Momma has Dance class, then swim class. She's having a friend over and then she's going to her grandparents so Big Momma can have some "Big Momma Time".
I'm very lucky in the fact that I have my supportive family so close to take her once a week so I'm able to have time to myself. I don't know if I would be sane if I didn't have time to just sit and listen to myself breathe. Not have to worry about getting to school on time, going to work on time. What lesson does she have? Getting her dinner fixed. LOL there's always and forever something.
During Big Momma Time I just be. If I want to read, I read. If I want to watch a scary movie, I watch it. Or if I want to do nothing at all but sit there and stare at the walls, that's what I will do. I used to use this time to go out and have a drink with my friends and go dancing. But then that wasn't really time for me. And no offense to my wonderful, amazing and dear friends, but this is time for ME, to do ME things. Not to listen to you vent or try to meet a man. I do that every other day of the week. And I love it and I love them. But this is time to listen to what I need. As apposed to what everyone else needs from me.
Everyone needs this time to just center themselves and get back on their even plane.
So take some You Time this weekend, and let me know how it works out for you! :)
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